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(AP) - Iowa counties begin processing same-sex
marriage applications Monday and the first gay weddings could
happen within hours, but details of just what changes and benefits
the ceremonies will bring are still being untangled.


      However, any questions lingering under the Iowa Supreme Court's
April 3 ruling that legalized same-sex marriage aren't expected to
slow the initial rush to county recorder offices.


      And while Iowa requires a three-day waiting period before
marriages can occur, judges may waive that delay and allow
immediate weddings. 


At least one pro-gay marriage group is counting
on waivers and has announced its members will hand out bouquets to
newly married couples Monday in five of Iowa's larger cities.

      "There are people who may feel they have waited a long time and
they want to do it as soon as possible, or they understand that life
is uncertain and something could happen while you're waiting,"
said Jon Davidson, legal director for Lambda Legal, a New
York-based gay rights organization.


      Maryfrances Evans and Stephanie McFarland don't plan to marry
Monday, but they're not waiting much longer. Evans, 46, and
McFarland, 39, will have their ceremony Friday, performed by the
same judge who finalized the adoptions of their two daughters, now
age 5 and 3.


      "It's all about me having the legal right to protect my family, and it's about my daughters being able to grow up knowing that
their family is absolutely as valid as any other family," said
Evans, who lives in the Des Moines suburb of Urbandale.

      The Williams Institute at the UCLA School of Law estimated Iowa
had 5,800 same-sex couples in 2005, and said U.S. Census figures
reported about 19 percent of gay and lesbian couples in Iowa were
raising children.


      The institute predicted in an April 2008 study that more than
2,900 of Iowa's same-sex couples would marry in the first three
years if gay marriage became legal. 


And based on experiences of
other states that allow same-sex union, the institute estimated
about 55,000 gay and lesbian couples would travel to Iowa to marry
during that period.


      Just what tangible benefits those couples will gain from
marriage remains uncertain.


      Gay marriage advocates said some advantages are clear, including
shared employer benefits, streamlined life and other insurance
policies, and the ability for couples to make health care and
end-of-life decisions for one another.


      Evans noted that if she died before her Friday wedding,
McFarland would have to pay taxes on their house and whatever else
she inherited. Once they are married, "there will be a clear-cut
legal line connecting Stephanie and I, period."


      Sharon Malheiro, a Des Moines attorney and board chairwoman of
One Iowa, a gay advocacy organization, said other issues may
require legal untangling, such as the ability to file wrongful
death lawsuits or apply for workers compensation benefits if a
same-sex spouse is killed or injured.


      She said same-sex couples probably will be denied some benefits
under the Defense of Marriage Act, the 1996 law barring federal
recognition of same-sex marriages. 


For example, spouses in same-sex
marriages may not be able to pay health care plan premiums with
pretax federal dollars and may not get reimbursed for their
spouse's expenditures from flexible spending accounts for health
care.


      While health care decision-making rights are anticipated under
Iowa's ruling, Malheiro noted that she and her fiance will continue
to carry their legal records with them when they travel outside the
state, and she advises her clients to do the same.
      

Iowa state agencies are still trying to determine how their
programs will be affected.


      Department of Human Services officials said there won't be
noticeable changes in the child welfare system, which screens
prospective parents by safety issues, not sexual preference.
Unmarried people can already adopt or foster children so long as
they have the proper training.


      Other states have different requirements for adoption, and many
foreign governments and international adoption agencies refuse to
place children with same-sex married couples.


      Human Services spokesman Roger Munns said the marriage ruling's
impact is less clear on programs such as Medicaid, food assistance
and subsidized health care, since those programs are federally
funded.


      The Iowa Department of Revenue has generally followed federal
guidelines on levying taxes. Spokeswoman Renee Mulvey said
officials are reviewing the state court's decision.


      Public health officials are reworking paperwork to give couples
options beyond the tradition "bride" and "groom." Agency
spokeswoman Polly Carver-Kimm said officials are considering other
changes, including the designations of "mother" and "father" on
birth certificates.


      Iowa's ban on same-sex marriage was initially overturned by the
Polk County District Court in August 2007, but only one couple,
Sean and Tim McQuillan of Ames, managed to get married before that
decision was stayed the next day.


      Sean McQuillan said he's looking forward to other same-sex
couples sharing the benefits he and Tim have starting seeing.


      "It's been a little bit awkward ... us being the only ones,"
he said. "It's going to be really great when everyone else gets
the same chance at equality that we've had for the last
year and a half."
      

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